There’s a Scottish phrase:
Shy bairns get nowt.Translation? If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
That means:
- Ask someone to be your mentor
- Ask someone for an intro
- Ask if they’d consider investing
You’d be amazed how many people will help you—if you just ask.
I started dropping messages on LinkedIn. Not spamming, just genuine, polite messages. A compliment. A question. A small ask. That’s how relationships get built.
And those connections start to compound. One person leads to another, and suddenly, you’re not starting from zero anymore.